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Survivors guilt and the real impact of war

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So, you know, clearly a tough tour.

And a lot of what people remember about

men who were killed in action.

And of course, that is right and proper

and commemorated and celebrated.

But of course,

I mean, there were those that were

I mean, there were some that were lightly

a burst eardrum, meant

you know, their career was over.

And there were a couple of.

There were two in particular of lads

the rocket strike on the 19th of July.

And thanks to the speed and the courage

them out, they lived,

But their bodies were shattered.

There was one young lad,

His shoulder had nearly

I mean, his arm was almost

And he had hundreds of bits of shrapnel

Hours of operations and.

And then months of rehabilitation,

with disability out of the service.

And I know he found that a struggle

And there was another

He'd given a year of his life at 52,

and serve his country.

And he was a really,

How he was doing three patrols a day in 50

helmet or his kit, I don't know.

But he did,

well over 100 bits

And, you know, at 52, you recover

And he's lived with

life, so it really took its

And then there was a psychological effect.

And there were some who have been haunted

Those who were there, those who pulled

their comrades out of the dead, comrades

out of the wreckage, not all in one piece.

there were others.

There was one lad who wasn't even there.

He shared a room with one of the

And had he been there at the time,

We'd have had four casualties

So in that respect, he was lucky.

But because he wasn't there, because he

The survivor guilt in him was so

He became suicidal,

He was eventually discharged

We did our level best to help him, but,

I mean, he's doing okay now,

his wounds were entirely mental

and, and his life had been saved

And yet his life was over for years.

David Hayden, who won a Military Cross for

his courage, his life was never the same.

There's a memory of the moment, but also

he found really hard, as anyone would,

with a Military Cross as he was before it.

And yet, of course,

He's had some struggles again.

He's back on his feet.

There was a young flying officer, police

who volunteered to be the effects

And that meant sifting through

killed and returning as much

But of course,

broken, bloodstained,

Send things back to a grieving family.

They're just going to add to the horror.

So she had this

things, these personal effects,

and boxing them up.

And she did it with such

She deserved more, much more credit

And yet I know she's struggled

When I talked to her about it years later,

So Basra 2007 left its mark in so many

I mean, I guess I'd add that

That is the reality of conflict.

You know, war is the worst thing.

There is nothing worse than it

for those caught up in it, for families

But if you volunteer to join

prepared to get yourself

And we did.

But that shouldn't obscure the fact

a lot of people living with the

still, whether that's

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